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Posted Sunday, August 26, 2012 // 11:15 pm
It's a choice
 After you ask that question, you really only have two responses.
And that two responses only amount to the fact that you are either an attention seeking bitch who manages to make a whole bunch of girls more negative about themselves so you can feel a little better about themselves, or you are an attention seeking bitch who basically failed.
Does that benefit the mankind in any way?
Other than making trash talking the one and only conversation in the group, you accomplished nothing. Here's just a few stuff you could have done if you weren't trash talking the entire clique:
So many things. So little priorities by so many bitches.
I won't say I don't understand why people trash talk. I know why, everybody knows why. It's just to strike this common conversation with the same bunch of girls you've been hanging out with just so you would feel that bit better about yourself when you are with that group of people if you feel insecure about yourself. It's a safety net. It's a comfort zone for you. And EVERYBODY does that, what's the harm anyway?
Here's the harm, you leave no one for me to strike a conversation with. Thanks a bunch, females.
When I speak about anything to some bitch you manage to transform, the topic can suddenly change to their bodies and how they feel about themselves. Guess what? I don't care about that sort of topic. And what does that leave me? A heartless bitch. When truth is, I don't want to engage in that sort of conversation and is actually real and confident enough to tell you straight in the face that it is not healthy.
And to hell if you're not comfortable with that to try and make me comfortable when I am not comfortable about being uncomfortable with myself. Okay that's a lot of comfortable in one sentence that I am not sure if I got the message right. Point is, I don't like those conversation, don't force me to have one or expect me to hold up such conversations.
Obsessing over your insecurities won't make them go away. Neither would it slowly fade away. All it does is cause a vicious cycle among the people you surround yourself with. It is not normal nor healthy to have that. It's just not. I have so many reasons in my mind and I am almost sure so do you.
Let's put it this way, your insecurities only become a problem when you choose to deal with them with your "All talk, no action" plan. Super effective, by the way. If your goal was to have as many insecurities as you can, that is.
To quote Tyra Banks, "Perfect is boring". It really is. And when you're imperfect, you're real, real enough to admit you are imperfect and cool with that.
 And unless you have your plastic surgery booked or done, don't come argue with me cause well, I don't care. I simply don't care. I would shrug right now just for you but I can't so here's my best attempt.
I hope you like it.
Labels: body issue, feeling down, rant, trash talk |